by: Cucan Pemo Publishing
“All we need is love.” Myth or not? Since love does seem tobe able to overcome anything and everything, at least ontelevision and at the movies, this seems like a reality.However, truth is, making relationships work takes skill andhard work, regardless of the “love” factor. This is a mythhere.Let’s take a peak at some of the more common concepts above“love” relationships and see if they are myths or based uponreality.If you are thinking of going into a relationship, or if youfind yourself falling in love, and ready to date, keep thisin mind: relationship is way, way beyond just love andattraction.Just like in fairy tales, once true love is found, peoplelive happily ever after. Truth or myth? Granted couples canlook into each other’s eyes and have those warm fuzzyfeelings. However, truth is, all couples will have their upsand downs. “Happily ever after” seems to imply a perfect,problem-less relationship when in reality, those don’texist. If you are in a problem-less relationship (which doesn'texist anyway), you'll get bored one day. And one of thecouples will want to run away!So, is it possible to create and maintain a long lasting andblissful relationship, or can one even dream of creating therelationship of his or her dreams?You bet!The first step is to arm yourself with the genuine knowledgeand instructions on how to create your soul-basedrelationship. Trust me, it is worth your time and money ifyou can ever find a comprehensive course of instructions andlearn more about the truth of relationship, and especiallyhow you can draw in your soul mate!It has to be “love at first sight” in order to work long-term. Myth or truth? While this can be true for some, itcertainly doesn’t have to be for all couples in long-termrelationships. Many people grow together over time.Since practically anyone can learn the nuts and bolts ofrelationship building, focusing on some basic techniquesthat can be learned is a must. The main ones, in noparticular order, are:- Understand your-self. Understand yourself. What is your personality. You may besurprised. Some people live for a long time and never cometo understand or even realize why they are the way they are!And why is this important? It determines how you look at theworld, how you will interpret the events occurring in yourlife, and WHO YOU ARE will help your partner determine howto react to YOU!- Rapport: Develop rapport with others well.Now let’s take a quick peak at the basics of developingrapport with others. In a nutshell, what it takes is to askquestions, have a positive, open attitude, encourage an open exchange of communications (both verbal andunspoken), listen to verbal and unspoken communications andshare positive feedback.- Conflict Resolution: Resolve negative issues and conflictswithout too much frictionHow do you handle conflicts? If you can put your ego asidepretty much and try to keep friction to a minimum, yourrelationships should move along fairly smoothly. Where youfeel disagreement, if you can “agree” to disagree on certainthings with the other party involved, that will help, too.In short, conflict resolution means to pretty much deal withothers as you would want them to deal with you. Once true love is found, people live happily ever after.Truth or myth? Well, it will definitely not be a perfect,problem-less journey. However, you definitely can livehappily ever after with the love of your life, if only youwill arm yourself with the right relationship skills andlearn relationship mastery whole heartedly. Trust me, this is within your power. It is your destiny todraw in your highest and best mate, if you have decided to.